Baby movements.... when do flutters turn to kicks! i cant wait anymore! lol..?

Hi there all you lovely mothers and mothers to be soon, well im now almost 18 weeks pregnant with my second child after aot of scares due to cramps and bleeding but all seems fine and dandy now thank god!! Anyways i have been feeling flutters on and off for abou a week ( i may have been feeling them a couple of weeks earlier but wasnt sure but 100% for the last week i know its my baby. As my daughter is almost 6 i cannot even remember being pregnant with her now lol. So my question is when did u guys start getting little jabs rather than flutters and when was your partner and children able to join in in the magical experience? i am just so excited for my husband to feel our baby move as this is his first baby and he simply cannot wait to become a father! thank you in advance for all your experiences :D xx